Huntington Beach Matchmakers Reveal 5 Signs He’s a Keeper

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How do you know if the guy you’re dating is actually Mr. Right? Is he truly ready to be the man you need him to be? Or is this relationship doomed to end in a breakup? As Huntington Beach matchmakers, we’ve helped thousands of single women in Orange County navigate the difficulties of dating, and we’re here to help you too.

After all, we know it can be extremely difficult for women to figure out if they have found the one or if they’re only wasting their time.

Today, our Huntington Beach matchmakers are going to share a few surefire signs you actually have found the one you’re meant to share your life with.

  1. He’s attractive.

Attraction is a very important element of a healthy relationship. Of course, that doesn’t mean that looks are everything, because we know connections in other areas can be just as important. However, finding your guy attractive can help to keep the spark alive for years to come – hopefully a lifetime.

Over time, you might find your relationship will start to change, but attraction is always a fabulous way to bring back those butterflies you had during the early stages of dating. That’s not to say you won’t be attracted to the wrong guys, because chances are, you will fall for some bad apples. It’s just that you should be attracted to the person you love.

  1. He is encouraging.

A good man wants you to become the best version of yourself. He is going to encourage you to reach your goals and dreams. He will likely push you to find your own happiness by pursuing your dreams and accomplishing your goals.

If you realize that being with your boyfriend allows you to be who you really are, and live according to your values, those attributes of life that you need to have to feel right in the world, it’s a good sign that you have found the one.

  1. He is emotionally mature.

A guy worth keeping will know how to handle the ups and downs of being in a committed relationship. He can work through conflicts, shows empathy, and is forgiving.

A guy who is always arguing or manipulating you isn’t worth keeping. You need to be with a guy who is emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship. You want someone who can be your rock when you need him the most.

  1. He is respectful of his mother.

This one is a huge deal, ladies. His relationship with his mother can tell you a lot about the way he will eventually treat you. If he treats his mother well, it’s likely he will do the same for you.

In addition to loving his mother, you want to be with someone who is respectful to all types of people, even those he sees as below him. Likewise, you’ll want him to respect your friends and family. If he doesn’t respect the people you love, he isn’t a keeper. He isn’t worth your time at all if he isn’t respectful.

  1. He is willing to open up.

When a man feels comfortable enough with you to open and be honest, that is a great indicator that you have found the one. It is clear that the two of you have a great connection. Men don’t typically open up easily, and it can be a struggle even with a woman they really like. His ability to open up to you will be helpful in the relationship. If your guy opens up to you and isn’t afraid of letting you know how he feels about you and other important things in life, then you found yourself a keeper.

So tell us, how does your guy measure up? Is he a keeper? Have you finally found your Prince Charming?

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single men in Orange County, contact our Huntington Beach matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us help you skip the frogs and get right to the good stuff.

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