Settling down is a vague term. When we refer to the notion of settling down, we’re talking about getting engaged or married, not just being in a relationship. Now, more than ever, marriage is happening later in life. Here at Orange County Singles, we know the hookup culture and dating apps are probably to blame for that. Certain men believe in engagement and marriage, but there are some who simply don’t see a point in it nowadays. We like to call them “commitment phobes.” Ugh, yes, the guys who refuse to settle down, the ones you should avoid like the plague.