OC Dating Experts Top 3 Signs He Likes Someone Else
It can feel like you got run over by a train when you suddenly discover that the guy you were into is no longer interested in you. It’s that kind of blow to the ego and heart – when your boyfriend/fling loses interest in you – that leaves you with heartache and feelings of despair. Everything seemed to be going to wonderful! You guys were on the same page about everything in life. There were no signs that his attention had turned to another woman.
Or were there and you just didn’t see them?
Maybe you missed or misread the signs he gave you. Perhaps you were so wrapped up in yourself that you failed to notice all the things he did the moment someone else caught his attention. No one likes to feel as if they have been played for a fool, which is why our matchmakers are here to help you and prevent from getting blindsided the next time around. A man may think he’s being sneaky when he’s got one woman on the line and playing another one on the side.
Today our OC matchmakers here at Orange County Singles are going to show you the telltale warning signs he likes someone else.
- He Stops Texting / Calling
When a guy is into you, he won’t be afraid to call and text first. If you’re already involved with him and have a pretty healthy relationship when it comes to technology, it be can be a huge red flag if he suddenly stops calling/texting you.
His attention has already shifted to someone else if he goes radio silent on you and you find yourself always being the initiator. It could be that he’s emotionally removing himself from the relationship because texting and talking to the new woman seems more appealing. Being busy is one thing, but a pattern of gradual disinterest and one-word responses makes things pretty obvious right? Clearly, you are no longer on his priority list – someone new has taken your spot.
- He Stops Making Eye Contact
Guilt is a funny thing. When we feel guilty about our decisions, we often avoid making eye contact with the person we are hurting, or because we fear they can see the lies in our eyes. It’s a subconscious thing, but with eyes being the window of the soul, it can be difficult to stare someone in the face when we’re hiding our true intentions.
If your boyfriend or love interest is finding it hard to maintain eye contact with you when you’re having a normal conversation – not an interrogation – it could be because his eyes will give away the fact that he is lying to you. If he is afraid to make eye contact because he’s falling for another woman and doesn’t want to look you in the eyes.
- He Bails All the Time
No one likes to be stood up. While we all have obligations that prevent us from being at certain places from time to time, when a guy bails on you time and time again, that’s not a good sign. It can definitely mean that he is no longer interested in you and what you have to offer.
A guy who’s into you will make time for you, even if he has a busy schedule. You’re too good to pass up, so he’ll do whatever it takes to see you. However, now he’s flaking regularly and making excuses for his frequent absences. Sorry, lady, but he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. No busy schedule or commitment can keep him away from his new lady, the one he’s interested in being with.
If you notice your love interest or partner is guilty of any of these behaviors, it’s time to take action. Sit down and talk to him about what’s going on in the relationship lately. You need to protect yourself by getting to the bottom of it before it’s too late and you’re completely blindsided by a breakup—or worse, being cheated on!
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