OC Matchmakers | 8 Signs He’s Not into You
When you really like a guy and are dying to take things to the next level, you’re blind and fail to see the telltale signs he’s not really into you. When a guy is interested, you’ll know right away. But when he isn’t, you can rest assured he’ll be doing one of the things below.
Let our Huntington Beach matchmakers show you the warning signs the new guy in your life is not that into you.
- He doesn’t call or text first.
Are you the one always sending the first text message? Are you always making the first phone call? If so, he’s not really interested in you. Trust us, when a guy likes you, he’ll be dying to talk to you as much as he can and won’t be afraid to reach out because he’ll want to know about your day.
- If he does answer, it’s short.
We all know those text messages: Hey, what’s up? And they respond with a simple not much and don’t ask you anything in return. It is very annoying, right? If you’re the one who is always initiating the conversation and have to continue it, then he’s not really into you. If he’s giving you short answers and is not engaging, he definitely doesn’t feel the same for you. Of course, some guys don’t like to text, but even so, they will try their best to put in efforts for the woman they like.
- He doesn’t ask about your life.
When you like someone, you want to get to know them, right? Well, if the guy you’re dating doesn’t bother asking anything about your life, whether it’s your favorite movie, how your work day was, or what you’re up to after work, then he’s certainly not interested in you.
- He doesn’t open up to you.
So when you think about it, you don’t really know much about him and his life. You don’t know what he does for a living, if he has any relatives, or if there’s anything else exciting happening in his life. He doesn’t really like to share anything with you. If you find yourself completely oblivious to who he is and what he does, then he’s not really interested in sharing those details with you for a reason (because he’s not interested in anything serious with you).
- You don’t really talk.
As mentioned earlier, if a guy is really into you, he’ll want to talk to you as much as he can. He wants to create a bond with you, learn about you, and simply enjoy your company—even if it’s only via text or phone call. But if he barely talks to you, rarely calls you, or takes hours to respond, then, sorry, he’s not really into you.
- He never has time to hang out.
We all lead busy lives, but everyone will make time for that special person, even if they have a busy schedule. If he’s always busy and takes days or even weeks to set up a date, then he’s not really into you.
- He flirts with everyone.
Does the new man in your life have a wandering eye? Does he flirt with every woman he sees? Ladies, if a man is truly interested in you, he’s going to devote his attention solely to you. Any man that is openly flirting doesn’t care about you.
- He doesn’t get jealous.
Everyone gets jealous when they see the person they like flirt with someone else; after all, it’s only natural. But if you notice that the new guy in your life doesn’t care that you flirt with other men in front of him, then he doesn’t care about you.
If you were questioning his interest in you, take a look at these eight telltale behaviors that indicate when a guy isn’t into you. So tell us, how does your new guy measure up? Is he into you too, or is it time for you to move on?
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