OC Dating Service| How to Spot a Toxic Guy
Plenty of guys seem great during the early stages of the relationship, only to reveal some rather toxic qualities once they think they have won you over. Save yourself some time and energy and look out for these clear giveaways that will let you know he’s trouble.
Today, our professional matchmakers are going to show you how to spot a toxic guy in the sea of OC singles.
- He uses corny pickup lines.
There’s a big difference between corny pickup lines and classy ones. It doesn’t matter how attractive he thinks he’s being – he needs to take his corny pickup lines and learn how to start a meaningful conversation with you. If you feel offended or grossed out by his pickup lines, don’t even go there. Don’t waste your time with this guy. Next!
- He expects you to be convenient.
One commo trait of toxic guys is expecting their lady to operate on their schedule all the time. They tend to get mad when a woman has plans of her own. In this guy’s mind, you’re not allowed to have your own life. If you do, that means you don’t love him or care about him. As crazy as this might be, there are plenty of guys who actually do this. Not only is it ridiculous, it’s also degrading to women.
- He doesn’t have professional clothes.
He doesn’t have to own an expensive designer suit or anything of that nature, but he should definitely have some professional work clothes. If he doesn’t own any professional looking clothes, he’s most likely not serious about his work life. If he has a good job but doesn’t own any business attire, he’s definitely not ambitious nor looking to advance his career anytime in the near future. He’s content with where he’s at and is not invested in his personal growth. With him, what you see is what you get.
- He doesn’t know how to cook.
We get that cooking can be a challenge for many people, but if the guy doesn’t how to make a simple dish and doesn’t want to learn, you can expect to be doing all the cooking in the relationship. Although pizza bites are delicious, it’s not healthy to eat pizza bites every day of your life. There’s really no excuse for not learning how to cook as a grown adult.
- He doesn’t ask you out on dates.
We don’t know what’s wrong with guys who do this. Instead of asking women on dates, they tell them – scratch that – they demand them. Guys may think they’re coming off as confident, but in reality, they’re just being rude. A guy who demands attention is a huge turnoff.
- He doesn’t have a good relationship with his family.
The relationship he has with his family can tell you a lot about the relationship he will have with you. If he has a toxic or nonexistent relationship with his family, you’d better believe that the toxicity or absence will play a huge part in your relationship. If the family drama doesn’t directly affect you, his reaction towards the whole situation will show when your relationship hits a snag. Spare yourself time and energy and just skip him all together.
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