5 Ultimate First Date Tips for Single Men in Orange County

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When you are able to get a first date with a beautiful woman, it is understandable that you want to go all out and please her, maybe by showing her that you’re manly and in charge, or by showing her that you’re funny.

But there may be a few things that could be overdone and you might just blow your chances with her for getting a second date.

First Date Tips for Single Men in Orange County

If you want to increase your chances of getting a second date, simply follow the tips from our Orange County matchmakers and have the best first date ever.

  1. Be in control.


It’s important to be in control and make those tough decisions, like calling the waiter, deciding where to go to eat, etc. When you are in control, it shows that you are confident.

It’s not easy when you get all groggy and drool while staring at this beautiful woman in front of you.

But there may be times when your behavior comes off as rude. Swearing or snapping your fingers at the waiter is just not acceptable. So, if you want to get a second date with her, then learn to be courteous and gentle in the way you behave.

  1. Stop trying to hard.


You may have waited since you were in college to get a date with this woman. You may have marked this moment in your secret diary and stored it as one of the best moments of your life.  But you know what? She doesn’t have to know those little details.

She’s still contemplating and figuring if she wants to go out with you again. Don’t ruin your chances with her by trying too hard.

She knows that you’re happy to be with her, but don’t ruin the date. Make her wonder if you’re having a good time. Don’t give in to the chase even before it begins.

  1. Show her that you’re independent.


You love hanging out and bonding with your guy friends, and every Friday night your calendar might be booked for hanging out with them. But saying that out aloud on your first date could actually be a huge turn-off for her.

You might think that it shows that your independent and confident, and that you also respect her space and are not going to be one of those clingy boyfriends, but it actually works otherwise. She might think that your life is just too rigid.

Or worse, it may seem like you’re trying to set boundary rules before you’ve even started dating. It’s almost like you’re already imposing a rule on her. What did you think, that she would be okay with that?

It’s okay to have guys nights but don’t make it seem like you do the same thing every weekend.

  1. Don’t be afraid to talk.


If you want to get a second date with her, then you need to do some talking. No one likes a guy who doesn’t know how to talk or keep a conversation going.

If you’re not a great conversationalist, keep a few pointers in mind to talk about during your first date. As soon as you feel more comfortable during the date, you’ll be able to relax and communicate better with each other.

  1. Dress to impress.


A woman takes more than an hour to get dressed for a first date, just to impress you and look good for you. Don’t you think you need to reciprocate the favor and impress her? Dressing up in something clean and stylish is the least you can do to make her feel respected on your first date. And she’ll definitely want to see you again if you can pull this off.

If you’re single and ready to meet beautiful single women in Orange County, contact our OC matchmakers today. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.