OC Matchmakers reveal how to know a woman is into you
Since women can be sublet about showing romantic interest, you might find it difficult to judge her level of interest.
Let our experience OC matchmakers here at Orange County Singles show you the top signs she’s interested in you.
- Her body language suggest attraction
Always be on the lookout for nonverbal cues when you’re spending time with a woman. Most importantly, be aware of good eye contact and make sure you hold her gaze. The longer you look into each other’s eyes the more likely you are to be making a good connection.
If the lighting allows, you might even spot dilated pupils that widen in the response to the release of chemicals associated with sexual attraction. It’s also smart to notice mirroring behaviors that create a good rapport between the two of you. If she tilts her head when you do or crosses her legs to mirror yours, these behaviors are significant predictors of attraction. In addition, the more she smiles when you are together, the more interested she is in you.
- She listens to you and wants to get to know you better
Although someone who is platonically interested in you might also want to learn things about you, a woman who finds you attractive will be particularly keen to understand you. If she is asking you a lot of questions and is keeping the conversation going, she’s probably intrigued at the very least. The level of attention she pays is also important. Is she nodding, displaying empathy and listening intently? If so, you’re making a good first impression on her and she’s definitely interested in you.
- She lets you in her personal space
It’s a good bet that a woman who is attracted to you if she seems to like it when you get close to her. As well as letting you into her personal space, she might actively try to get close to you. For example, she may lean forward when you’re talking, move close to say something in a soft voice, or reach out to brush something off your shirt.
- She think about you when you’re not together
Does she get in touch with you to talk about your day or see how you’re doing? Is she interested in interacting with you via Facebook? These are key signs that you’re on her mind even when you’re not together, and it is often romantic attraction that prompts this preoccupation and high level of interest.
- She openly shares things about her
If a woman is opening up to you and letting you get to know her on a deeper level, she trusts you and wants you to see her true self.
- She is interested in more dates
Finally, if she is quick to accept a date invitation or makes a suggestion on her own, this is the most obvious sign that she is attracted to you. Relax, and look forward to a wonderful relationship.
If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded singles in Orange County, contact our matchmakers today and let our matchmakers help you find true love. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!