Laguna Beach Matchmakers | 4 Signs You’re Not Meant to Be

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Compatibility is a very essential ingredient of a healthy relationship.  Often, we see people getting in relationship with someone who they find attractive, wealthy or talented, but they are not necessarily compatible with each other.

Obviously, no two people can think alike on everything in life. Some disparities are bound to happen in every relationship. However, it is important to ensure that the differences between you and your boyfriend are not so big that it gets difficult to continue a relationship.

Below our Laguna Beach matchmakers here at Orange County Singles Dating Service will show you the top signs you’re not meant to be together.

  1. You’re Not Affectionate Anymore


Holding hands might seem kind of obsolete today, like something young kids do in junior high. However, it’s actually a very sweet gesture that shows that you actually love your partner.  It’s also just a nice way to stay connected with each other as you’re walking around.

You might think that not holding hands with your boyfriend anymore is no big deal—and if none of the other things listed here are true for your relationship, then maybe it’s not such a big deal.  But you don’t hold hands and you notice the other signs from our matchmakers below, it’s honestly a sign that you’re not compatible for each other.  Couples who still hold hands after being together for years are the happiest couples on the planet.

  1. You Never Go on Real Dates


Staying in on the weekend with your boyfriend is wonderful.  Staying in every single night because the two of you just don’t go out anymore, well, that’s not good at all.

And it’s a story says you’re not happy in the relationship anymore.  Date nights don’t need to happen every week, but they should happen at least once a month to keep the spark alive.  They’re a good way to check in with each other and make sure you’re keeping the love alive and thriving.  You don’t have to do fancy things all the time, grabbing dinner or drinks will do.

  1. There Are a lot of Fights


Fighting in your relationship all the time is a red flag. While that seems super obvious, it’s not always obvious when you’re in the middle of it all.

You might assume that couples fight all the time, or that this is just what happens when you’ve been together for a long time. That’s really not the case.  Fighting on a daily basis isn’t healthy and it also shows that you and your boyfriend are not compatible with each other.  It’s also proof that you’re not being honest with each other and are keeping a lot of things to yourselves.  Basically, it’s bad all the way around.

  1. You Blame Each Other


Being in a really happy and healthy relationship makes everything in your life so much better.  You’re in a good mood all the time, you don’t stress over the little things, and you generally enjoy yourself.  You might recommit yourself to living a healthy lifestyle or take on more hobbies.

Being in an unhappy relationship does the opposite. You’ll feel like everything is going wrong and like you just can’t stop it from happening.  That goes for everything with your personal life and friendships to how well you’re getting along with your family members and even affects your career.  You’ll blame your boyfriend because you’re always in a bad mood… and that’s when you’ll know that it’s time to end this relationship.  You deserve someone who brings happiness and joy to your life, not stress and grief.

If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded single men Orange County, contact our Laguna Beach matchmakers today! To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!