Laguna Beach Matchmakers Show How to Cure a Broken Heart

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No one in the world wants to experience a breakup. They are painful and hurt for weeks on end. People who are going through a breakup tend to spend their time moping around, wearing the same clothes for days, and rewinding and replaying every moment of their relationship. And, of course, throw in some emotional eating and binge-drinking and that’s where it all goes south.

We get it, you’re going through a lot of pain right now. But don’t you want to make this experience easier on yourself? There are a few things you can do to get through this painful breakup. Let our Laguna Beach matchmakers here at Orange County Singles show you the secrets to mending your broken heart and moving on with your life.

  1. Be Sad


Maybe you’re known in your group of friends to be the tough one. But guess what? Even the toughest person in the world has emotions. If you’re sad, then it’s okay to be sad. You don’t have to pretend that you don’t have feelings. It’s inevitable to experience pain and sadness during a breakup, and it’s essential to acknowledge and work through it.

  1. Clean the House


We know you might think that it’s a weird time to clean your house, but trust us, it’s the perfect time to clean it. It’s easy to feel depressed when your whole house is a mess. Give it a solace scrub and clean it up and down. It will not only make you feel better, but it shows that you can start fresh anytime.

  1. Let Out a Good Cry


It is very important to do this one. Many people, especially men, suppress their emotions. Listen, they’re going to come out anyways, so you might as well let them out now. You don’t want to start crying during a presentation or business meeting. It’s best to take some time to sit at home and have a good cry. Believe us, those salty tears will help you release a lot of pain.

  1. Accept What Happened


We know that you have some hope left inside that your partner will come back, right? But you need to accept what happened and move on. If your partner comes back down the road, great. But don’t wait for them or revolve your life around the thought of it. Clinging to hope will only delay the healing process.

  1. Remove Them from Social Media


It’s time you delete your ex from all your social media accounts. The worst thing you can do is keep them as friends because you’ll see everything they’re up to and be reminded of them every day. You might even start stalking them. It’s going to be hard to delete someone you shared so many wonderful moments with, but having them as a friend won’t help you heal your broken heart.

  1. Be Selfish


This is a time to focus on yourself and yourself only. Join the class you always wanted to take. Go to the movies. Hang out with friends. We don’t really care what you do as long as it’s something that makes you feel happy. It’s time to focus on yourself and give yourself the love you deserve.

  1. Get a New Look


Cut your hair, buy some new outfits, and join the gym. Everyone has that moment after a breakup where they want to start a new life. Yes, the first few days or even weeks are going to be drastically different and tough. But if you’re following our breakup tips, you’re soon going to heal and want to start your new life. A new look and some new clothes will make you feel great and will provide you a jumpstart.

  1. Go Out


You might not want to go out during the first few weeks of your breakup, we get it. But after a while, you’re going to want to get out of your house and interact with others. Gather up your single friends and get ready to have fun out on the town. This is a great way to reconnect with old friends and sharpen up your social and flirting skills.

If you just broke up, we know it hurts. But you don’t have to remain sad and miserable. Use these eight tips from our Laguna Beach matchmakers and get back on your feet in no time.

Once you’re healed and ready to start dating again, contact our professional matchmakers here at Orange County Singles and let us introduce you to quality singles who are fit to date and compatible with you. Let us help you ease back into the Orange County dating scene and help you find the love you deserve.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!